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Marry an Immigrant Cousin and Chances of disabled Child's Birth
Most of us have a maximum of five options for marriage. Maternal aunt or maternal uncle's daughter or son. That the son should choose one of them would have been thought of in childhood.
If you talk about the father's side, the other three options are uncle, aunt and paternal daughter or son option.
We and our parents set our minds in these five options from childhood, sometimes we get it and if it doesn't, we care less about the opinion of the children without looking at the quality. And the relationship is given by asking the will. If he throws away even if it is his own, he will throw it in the shadows. Nothing like this happens, often they kill themselves and hang them upside down in the sun. Throwing in the shade is old now.
In the majority of people today
Malice, ego, hatred and jealousy were found among close relatives. Many parents know that the relatives do not want to have a relationship, but the children are stubborn. Believe me, big links and big markets. Allah will make the marriages of each marriage together, God willing. Do not enslave yourself to anyone. And the cousin is not at all.
Newly married children listen to the taunts of the previous generation. For them, marriage becomes a means of compensation for past fights and grudges of parents, not happiness. A girl is usually taunted, we know how your mother was, how was your father. She dies within herself that these same parents had a relationship against her will and what are these people giving them. She doesn't even tell her parents. If you tell me, divorce would have happened somewhere and the whole family would have been disintegrated and old relationships would have been ended. If not told, for the honor of her parents, she would have killed herself and suffocated to death. And she would tell her that everything is fine.
The Second Important Thing is that After Marriage
That sweet relationship is rarely established between husband and wife. Which is formed on marriage with a complete stranger. That for a few years the chai (happiness) of both does not end. Both would have adjusted until they had held back the hesitation and understood each other.
We Pakistanis and especially people from Punjab give first preference to cousins in marriages of our children. Pakistanis living permanently in London are also repeating the same mistake. And the number of special children in the permanent Pakistani community there is very high. If there is no marriage between the cousins simply because of age, then they do it here in their caste community.
My Education and Field is Related to Special Needs Children and Individuals.
While there are many other causes of disability, one of the major causes is first cousin marriage. I am not saying this as a hypothesis, but research has proven this. According to a conservative estimate, the role of cousin marriage in the cause of disability is 25 to 50 percent. If you look at the relationship of the parents of special children in your family or nearby before marriage, most of them will be cousins. About one and a half million people are special in Pakistan. Which is 8% of our population.
As a Result of Cousin Marriage
Even if the disability is not obvious, the children born from cousin marriage will be physically and mentally weaker than those children whose parents are not cousins.
This has been Proven by Research.
You can estimate it from this. How many scientists have become from Pakistan? How many Oscar award winning Pakistanis? How many Olympics champions are there? How many athletes are there? How many footballers are there? In which field are the people of Pakistan competing in the world?
If counted, few will be the same, all the rest are average. They are full of wisdom. Married to a cousin, raised a wife and parents, and died living a life like this.
That mental capacity is so much that no thought or intelligence beyond it would allow any creative or unique work to be done. We would not have related ourselves to some better people so that only our next generation can change.
I Read the Recent Literature on Cousin Marriage
In developed countries of the world and found that first cousin marriage is illegal in 29 European countries. You cannot marry a first cousin. They have made a law on it. Cousin marriage is prohibited in most states of America. A friend of mine lives in State 24, he says cousin marriage is banned here too.
The Jews who control the world economy do not do cousin marriages at all. Twenty types of tests are conducted before marriage so that the next generation is healthy not only physically but also mentally. And here there is no awareness of good mental health and intelligence.
Just look at the marriage system of the Christian community living in Pakistan. First of all, they never marry within their caste community. They also ask others what their caste is. For example, Matto's marriage Matto and Ghori Christian never get married in the Ghori community.
They never marry even their uncles and aunts. Uncles, aunts and uncles do it with the sister when there is no suitable option elsewhere. They do it for whatever reason. Do very well.
In our Schools for Special Need Children
We special children teachers and other support staff see two, three and sometimes four siblings of each disability in almost every school. Thinking of their parents and meeting them, the heart breaks with sadness. Yesterday, an admission came, four siblings are completely deaf and hard of hearing. His parents were maternal uncle's children. When the psychologist asks you or their parents, it is known that their parents are mostly cousins, there is no one to tell them that you are a cousin, there is a disability in the family history, a child was born special, now there is no risk of having a child in the future. Take it or consult a specialist doctor.
The blood group, which was called RH factor, the blood group of the mother and the child in the mother's womb is different, such as the mother's blood is positive and the child's blood is negative, this is also a major cause of disability.
Another Major Cause of Disability is Mishandling by a Midwife
An inexperienced doctor at birth. Lack of oxygen, prolonged delivery time, the baby falling out of the hands, excessive pressure on the head, etc. can cause disability at all ages.
After the marriage, the pregnant bride is not paid attention to the husband or does not come, mother-in-law, mother-in-law, father-in-law or anyone in the giant family constantly bothering the innocent child with mental agony and not providing her with good food. It is one of the leading causes of birth defects.
If a pregnant girl is kept happy and provided with complete food, the new guest will come into this world healthy and God willing without any deficiency or disability.
Forbid people from cousin marriage if there is already birth defect in the family, ask them to go to a good doctor or the nearest special education school and consult a female psychologist, ask them how many children you have born from cousin marriage. . Maybe that's how they get away with it. Cousin marriage happened in one or two generations, now leave her life and don't continue it from generation to generation.
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