Five Essential Tests to Must be Done Before Marriage
Say it is our ignorance or something else that we associate childlessness, hereditary genetic disabilities in children, having only daughters instead of sons, mostly with girls. And they allegedly blame him for it. At some point, she even starts to consider herself guilty by accepting this ignorant concept as true. Mother-in-law used to take Sister-in-law for these things without her knowledge, for treatment, sedation, tests.
While the people associated with the medical field
They will confirm me that the wife is as much responsible for childlessness, birth defects in children as the husband's role in it. And women have no role in giving birth to daughters. Only men have the ability to determine gender.
By getting some tests done before marriage we can avoid the possible problems in our conservative society. Here, not even a month passes after the marriage and people start asking for good news from both the girl and the boy. And in families devoid of religious and worldly studies, if there were no children for a few months or a couple of years, then the girl would be made a psychiatric patient.
Instead of going to sages and monks before marriage, should the boy get his semen analysis sperm count test done to see if he is capable of becoming a father or not? It can be from any lab i.e. Chagatai or Shaukat Khanum Aga Khan. There is a test of 500. Let me make it clear here that it is one thing to be healthy sexually and it is a different thing to be healthy and have the number of sperm needed for pregnancy. The consciousness of which is very little among us. Instead of making girls go through expensive tests, men should get these basic tests done.
Some men do not even have a single sperm in their semen
While they can perform sexual functions perfectly well. One millimeter of female semen can contain anywhere from 40 million to 300 million healthy sperm. If the number of sperm in one millimeter of semen is less than 15 million, chances are very low that the fertilization of sperm and egg will lead to pregnancy. Although only one sperm and one ovum combine for pregnancy, the number of sperms, their structure and movement seen under the microscope tells how healthy the sperms.
A man in my immediate circle had four marriages for children. He was a big landowner who wanted an heir. The age of the last wife was twenty years and his age was 60 years. People greedy for money and land kept giving him their daughters. His whole village is a witness. When he died, except one, 3 of them completed their Iddat and got married to another after his death. All three were still young. Allah blessed all three with the blessing of children. His youngest wife used to say that this man had not even got himself tested by any lab. Who used to go to the sages and take which boats? But he did not go to any doctor. He considered having sex as proof of his recovery. And so it is in many places.
If the ovaries produce two eggs in a month, then two children i.e. twins will be born. In 1998, a couple in the state of Texas, USA, had 8 children, in which one died and 7 grew up perfectly and lived a normal life.
If a single ovum is released from the ovary. And for some reason it broke into two pieces. And they got two sperms. So the twins will be born of the same sex and the same shape. The twins that will be born from the union of sperm from two different eggs may not be of the same sex. Nor is it necessary that they be identical.
Children are always wanted right after marriage, right?
If you think so. Or if your family misbehaves with the bride-to-be every month when she menstruates, then if the sperm count is low, it can be tried to increase it before marriage with the doctor's advice. And if there is zero and no chance of growth. So marry a woman who already has a couple of children. He is divorced or widowed. You will never become a father, accept it after consulting the doctors and don't wait for a miracle. What if you have children later? If not, life will pass with children, brother
In this regard Hameed Latif Hospital on Lahore Ferozepur Road is good. You can discuss your problem with Prof. Arshad Javed, an expert in these matters. You can also refer me when you meet. Must read his popular informative book Sex Education. Its hard copy can also be obtained from anywhere.
1.Fallopian Tubes Teste
On the other hand, girls, if their periods are not normal or there is any other problem, then they should get their ovaries and fallopian tubes tested to see how their health is.
Get an obstetrical ultrasound from an experienced radiologist.
Because these ovaries only produce eggs, then the fallopian tubes pass through the fallopian tubes into the mother's uterus. If the ovaries and fallopian tubes are not healthy and there are some complex problems, the chances of becoming a girl child are very low. If both husband and wife undergo fertility test before marriage, it will be very easy for them to plan ahead when they will have a child. If one of the two is completely barren, then tell the other. In our country, infertility is always associated with women, while studies and researches say.
That 35% of men suffer from infertility and 35% of women suffer from infertility. 20% of the reasons for not getting pregnant are even when both are perfectly fine, only the male's reproductive cells and normal eggs are not able to meet. And the remaining 10 percent are unknown reasons, which we Muslims say is that Allah did not write the blessing of children in fate itself.
According to the Pakistan Demographic and Health Survey 2019-2020 report, 22 percent of people in Pakistan are unable to become parents. And this ratio is 15 percent worldwide.
2. Blood Test
This needs to be done is the blood group test. If both have the same blood group, then their rhesus factor, also known as Rh factor, is found to be the same or not.
If the female of the couple is Rh-negative and the male is Rh-positive, then the blood group of the newborn is checked immediately after each delivery. If the child is Rh positive on the father's group, the mother is given an anti-D vaccine, which can cost between 4,000 to 7,000. This vaccine protects the next pregnancy.
3.Thalassemia Test
The third test is for thalassemia if one of the two has minor thalassemia then there is no problem and if both have minor thalassemia then the child will be born with major thalassemia. The hemoglobin level in the blood of such children is very low and they need blood every month for as long as they live. If one of the two is a patient of major thalassemia and the doctor allows, then they can get married and have children. Each case is different. Do get Thalassemia test done otherwise you may face any major problem after marriage. These children often die despite bleeding. This disease can be avoided by being careful.
4.Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs)
The fourth type of test is STDs i.e sexually transmitted diseases. If a boy or a girl has had sex with someone before marriage, then he can also get some diseases from his partner, including human immunodeficiency virus (HIV virus) which causes AIDS. More hepatitis B and C can also be due to this cause, so be sure to get all these tests done. These are person-to-person diseases.
5.Hemophilia Test
The fifth and last is the test if there is a chronic or hereditary disease in your family like heart disease, diabetes, kidney problems, blood diseases like hemophilia in which the blood does not clot when cut and can lead to death of the patient. . Therefore, if any disease is chronic in your parents, make sure to get that test done.
After all these tests it will be very easy for you to start a new life and lead it happily. These tests will cost a maximum of 5 thousand rupees for a male and 10 to 15 thousand rupees for a female.
There are some genotype tests that determine the chances of passing a defect on a parent's gene to the child. You should understand that genes are software that are installed from parents to children in the same way. Any single defective gene can cause any disability. It is better to get this test done. You can read the same topic in the two articles on genetic testing in this website soon.
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